Weddings are magical events, full of love, laughter, lovely clothes, but even the most picturesque ceremonies can go sideways with just one awkward moment.
Whether you're a guest, part of the bridal party, or the one walking down the aisle, there are a few things that should never happen at a wedding.
At UK Flower Girl Boutique, we’ve been lucky enough to dress little ones for thousands of beautiful celebrations, and we’ve heard it all! So, here's our list of 7 things you should never do at a wedding—save yourself the embarrassment and help keep the day picture-perfect.
1. Wear White (Unless You’re Told To)
It’s the golden rule: don’t wear white unless the bride says it’s okay. This includes ivory, cream, and even pale champagne if it’s too bridal. Save the statement for your own big day. If you're shopping for little ones, go for something sweet but distinct—like our blush and yellow dresses, which are perfect for flower girls without stealing the spotlight.
2. Arrive Late
Walking into the ceremony after the bride? Yikes. Always aim to be early, especially if you're navigating an unfamiliar venue. Bonus tip: don’t assume you can sneak in quietly—everyone sees the late one.
3. Post Pictures Before the Couple Does
You got the perfect photo of the bride stepping out of the car, but that doesn't mean you should upload it to Instagram right away. Respect the couple’s timeline for sharing their special moments.
4. Bring an Uninvited Plus-One (Or Your Kids)
If the invitation doesn’t mention a plus-one or include your little ones, don’t assume they’re welcome. Weddings are expensive, and every seat counts. But when children are invited? That’s our cue! Make sure they’re dressed the part with our collection of flower girl and page boy outfits.
5. Overindulge at the Open Bar
We’re all here to celebrate—but know your limits. You don’t want to be remembered as “that guest.” Champagne toasts are lovely; tequila-fueled karaoke… maybe not so much!
6. Ignore the Dress Code
“Garden chic,” “black tie optional,” “boho formal”—wedding dress codes can be confusing, but they matter. Ask if you’re unsure, and always aim to dress up, not down. And yes, the same goes for your flower girl—our dresses come in a range of styles to suit everything from rustic barns to royal ballrooms.
7. Make It About You
Don’t propose, don’t announce a pregnancy, and definitely don’t try to “upstage” the bride. This is their day. Be a part of it, not the headline.
Bonus Tip: Don’t Forget the Little Details
It’s the small touches that make a wedding truly magical—like a flower girl in a beautifully embroidered dress, scattering petals just ahead of the bride. That’s where we come in. At UK Flower Girl Boutique, we’re here to make sure your tiniest attendants look picture-perfect.
So, whether you’re planning a wedding or just attending, keep these tips in mind. Weddings are meant to be joyful, not stressful—and a little etiquette goes a long way.
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